That resort is not the real Mexico


MARLENE MORRISON
Opinions Writer

I am all for stimulating the Mexican economy. As a native of Mexico I am always delighted to learn about all the of the fun trips that people around these parts take to Puerto Vallarta, Cabo San Lucas or Cancun to escape the harsh Saskatchewan winter. Trust me, I escape too. However, unlike most of my peers I do not escape to the sunny hot spots.

Blame it on being a Mexican, but when I go to Mexico I am more interested in seeing my fellow Mexicans as opposed to half the population of Saskatchewan. Don’t get me wrong, I am quite aware of the fact that these places are very beautiful — who wouldn’t want to go there? I also partake in a little something called “Mexican Pride.” But there is something so particularly fundamental to my existence as a Mexican in Canada: I must hear about every nuance of your experience as you “rough it” at one of the countless all-inclusive resorts.

Now, I am not being accusatory or condescending. I delight in hearing about how my friend’s roommate got so drunk he had to be hospitalised (I have an odd sense of humour). But I must fill you in on a little secret: there is more to Mexico than tequila, cheap currency and corruption, although I am sure those are considered pivotal to the Mexican image.

Mexico is also rich in culture. If you think that all the Spanish you will ever need to know will consist of “dos cervezas, por favor” you are sorely mistaken. Yes, that will get you far with the hotel staff who probably know more English than you know Spanish but there is more to the language than knowing how to order alcohol. 

Though Spanish (not Mexican) is the dominant spoken language, there exist 62 Amerindian dialects spoken among the indigenous peoples. The indigenous are those that try to sell you gum and offer to wash your windows while you are sitting in traffic, in case you weren’t so sure. I find it peculiar how people can say that they have escaped to Mexico to “get away from it all” and in actuality, never really go anywhere beyond the parameters of their all-inclusive hotel.

As a student, I can understand why people would not venture outside their hotel: everything you could need or want is there, so why would you leave and spend your hard-earned money elsewhere?

But please, I beg of you, do not for one minute believe that because you went to Puerto Vallarta that it translates into “experiencing Mexican culture” if the entire time you spent it by the hotel pool, partying with the very nice couple from Sweden. And I assure you, flirting with the Mexican bartender so they would give you the good tequila does not count as relating to the people. And neither does bartering with the Indigenous woman who happens to have six or seven children by her side.

I would suggest that if you were to trespass the confines of the all-inclusive resort it would be to taste the cuisine in the place where people don’t call it “Mexican food” but food. There is a reason why Mexican food is a common favourite among people — it’s actually good!

Mexico is great for is history. This is the land of the Aztecs and Mayans. Did you know that Chichén Itzá is now one of the new Seven Wonders of the World? In case you weren’t aware, it’s the location of a pyramid built by the Mayans.

I could continue to try to give you a lesson on why Mexico is a place renowned for its culture but that would fall to deaf ears if the audience is mainly interested in going to a place where the alcohol is cheap and the weather is hot. And perhaps that is all Mexico will ever be to some. But as a Mexican, this narrow-minded party mentality seems like a waste because people choose not to see past the facade.

And though I cannot guarantee that you will not contract the H1N1 virus or that you will not be arrested and consequently discharged because you bribed the police, I can say that there is a reason why I partake in the aforementioned “Mexican Pride.”

Although it would seem that my view of Mexico is a tad idealistic, I can’t help but take pride of my own native land. 

One last word of advice: don’t drink the water. Trust me.


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  • Sheryl Stewart

    so glad to read this as I too am tired of people who say they are sick of going to PVR when in fact they have only been to the Malecon the bars and the inclusive resorts. How can we educate travellers to experience Mexico and enjoy it as a destination not just as a resort area.

  • Aaron

    I agree with Marlene here. Having travelled extensively in this beautiful country with my relatives who reside there, I can assure you all that if you only stray from the beaten path by a few blocks you will find some of the most amazing hidden gems that only the locals know of. One of the best things you can do, even if you do go to an all inclusive resort, is to ask the staff where some local favourites are for restaurants, markets, night life. The locals will always know the best spots, they live there !

    Congrats on your first article Marlene!

  • LadyLin

    I am leaving for PV in 2 days, and don’t stay in all inclusive resorts. Each year my husband and I rent a car and explore. We spend at least a week in PV at a downtown hotel on the beach, but the rest of the trip consists of a few days in Yelapa, which is sheer delight, and another week or so exploring. Last year it was south to Colima and this year it is north the San Blas. We love being off the beaten path, and find the Mexican people to be so hospitable and helpful. We have tried to learn some Spanish, and the people we meet will take the time to try and communicate. Going to Mexico is the highlight of my year.

  • kim

    Hi My husband and i and a couple were friends with are thinking of mexico this year either Sept or Oct, Although i would like to stay near a beach so we can enjoy boat trips etc that are on offer, we would also like to stay in the real mexico, I don’t want to go to beautiful Mexico and not experience the real thing or meet the real people. Does any one have any reccomendations of which resort or town to stay in any info would be appresiated.
    Many thanks
    Kim